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IDENTITY-YOU

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Things I’m passionate about:

Music
Food
Books
Traveling
Martial Arts
Sleeping
Eating

Books I’ve recently read :

Though I’m quite busy with my job, I still have time reading books. So far, I’ve just finished reading “The Unexpected One” by Elizabeth McGowan and Bob Ong’ s “MacArthur”.

Songs I could listen to over and over:

Struggle No More- it’s a gospel song by Anthony Hamilton, the lyrics are good.
Should We Go on Our Own ways – a new song by Francisco, he’s the guy who gave us the remix of “the Way I Are”
I Tried- by BoneThugs ft Akon, I always listen to this during my law school days..hehe


Traits I’m attracted to in my best friends:

A wicked sense of humour
Simplicity. I'm not one for gossip and politics and cannot/don't know how to deal with that.
The ability to laugh at themselves

Things I say often:

Duh!
Kafay!
Toinks!
Hanep Ini/An!

Things I’d like to do before I die:

Learn 27 languages
Travel or visit France with _ _ _ _ _ _ _
Produce my own songs
Sing with Alicia Keys hehe..

PEOPLE TO TAG
YEN, LALA, LEONEL, KR, TALA, EDEN, ATE PRECY, HALLEY

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STRUGGLE NO MORE

..this goes out to my friends..guys..stay strong..

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STRUGGLE NO MORE
( Anthony Hamilton feat. Jaheim, MusiqSoul Child)

Ooh I'm Ooh I'm (sick and tired sick and tired) Ooh I'm
Ooh I'm Ooh I'm (sick and tired sick and tired) Ooh I'm
Ooh I'm Ooh I'm (sick and tired sick and tired) Ooh I'm
Ooh I'm Ooh I'm (sick and tired sick and tired) Ooh I'm

Lately It's been hard times
I'm talking about them
Financial ones aside
And they say when it rains it pours
Well it's running at my door
If it ain't one thang (one thang) it's another
And I'm so glad that we got each other
I'm so sick and tired of being stressed out
Lord please help me from this mess I'm in

Lord lift me over the hurt and pain
Deliver me from the rain
See I don't wanna stress over stress no more
I don't wanna strug-gle no more
So lift me up over the hurt and pain
Deliver me from the rain
See I don't wanna stress over stress no more
I don't wanna strug-gle no more

Every day every night I pray
Lord help me find the way (help me find my way)
To stay strong
And to keep my sanity
So I can provide for myself
And for my family
I'm so glad they believe in me cause the love it gives me energy (said the love gives me energy)
And with out them I couldn't make it no way
So I'ma keep pressing on on and on
Lord lift me over the hurt and pain
Deliver me from the rain
See I don't wanna stress over stress no more
I don't wanna struggle no more
So lift me up over the hurt and pain
Deliver me from the rain
See I don't wanna stress over stress no more
I don't wanna struggle no more

I wanna see my family
Get what they want have what they want get what they need
(I wanna see the finer things like the ???? just reminding me)
I don't wanna strug-struggle no more
I don't wanna live out here broke
(Stay on the scene with the finer things, like the spot that I got that's reminding me)

Lord lift me over the hurt and pain
Deliver me from the rain
See I don't wanna stress over stress no more
I don't wanna struggle no more
So lift me up over the hurt and pain
Deliver me from the rain
See I don't wanna stress over stress no more
I don't wanna struggle no more

No more no more no more
No more no more no more
No more no more no more
No more no more no more

It's In the Cards

Frustrations

As i was watching my Alicia Keys playing the piano during her performance last Grammy Awards, i can't help but imagine myself in her place. "Well, it's free to imagine, there's nothing wrong with it", (sigh) the line of an individual who keeps dreaming and ends up frustrated, that's me (lolz). As defined, frustrations is "the experience of nonfulfillment of some wish or need. Definitely, there are people who can relate to me now, so why do we get frustrated? It's a part of being human, it happens because there are things in life that goes beyond our way and prevent us from achieving our goal while believing that we can accomplish them but sometimes ends up in nothing. Though you can't go back, but you can get rid of the hurt due to your frustrations. One of the best things to accept frustrations is that you must identified and acknowledged what is really going on.

As soon as you've realized that you are frustrated, you are free to make your own choices and how you will be able to handle it. And the way you handle things is the key to successfully move on. Me, i admit that i have a lot of frustrations, but it won't stop me from fulfilling my dreams. I'll do what i can to reach them. I know i could (hehe). Some of my frustrations in life? Here they goes;

-Play piano

-i don't know if one can call it a "frustration" but for me, it is - and that is To know how to Sing well..'coz my voice are not that good..believe me..lolz




- to be a psychologist

- music composer/ record producer

Anyway, enough of these. i might get frustrated again haha..just kidding! I know I can it's too early to tell..ain't no stressin'..;p

IN THE NEWS

SPRING AWAKENING

Before and After..hehe

before and after (now smilin') lolz

Sup..it's been a long time hehe..been busy with work and other stuffs so i don't have much time updating my blog. The whole month was a bit crazy, but it was all good. The "busy days" helped me a lot to recover, talkin' about emotions, relationships, depression and whatever you wanna' call it. Everything now for me was back into normal. "That guy" is gone and i'm quite happy with that. Lately, i've realized i've been wasting my time on him. While everything about me was good, some of my friends are having the same experience as i have. Break-ups and a whole lot of cries and pains. Seeing them suffering the same what i have been through also hurts me since i knew what it feels like to be taken for granted and abandoned. But in my case, though we're not friends right now, i still care. Surely, he knows that. It's hard to move on knowing that you still have that "feeling" towards that person. That's normal. Anyone who have loved, knows it. Yeah, after the break up, i've felt that everything around me was gone. Thought it was easy, 'coz i believe i'm strong. But no matter what i did, trying to forget about what happened, still, didn't work out. No matter what i choose to react, nothing happens, the pain, memories, and all, still reminds me of the past. So i just let all my emotions to flow all out. Then, suddenly, just wake up one day, realizing that i was stupid, crying over someone who doesn't even care about me. Sorry for too much drama. I've promised myself not to discuss about it, but i just want to share what i've been through because of "love". Now, everything is different. I don't think he deserve anything, even a smile.

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Tagged Again From Lala

Persons to tag Gelene, Anabz, Leonel, Marc

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CIRCLES by Marques Houston

I just love this video and it's one of the songs that really made me cry..hehe..

6 Quirky Things About me

6 Quirky Things About me

Tagged again by my friend LALA

The rules: Link to the person that tagged you. Post the rules on your blog. Share six un-important things/habits/quirks about your self. Tag 6 random people at the end of your post by linking to their blogs. Let these random people know that they are tagged by leaving comments in their blog.Let your tagger know when your entry is up.

Six Unimportant things/habits/quirks about my self.

1.Forgetful at times.

2.I eat a lot.

3.Using the bathroom for an hour.

4.I love sleeping.

5.Can't survive without music.

6.Buying unimportant stuffs hehe.

6 people to tag:

Halley, Ate Precy, Mayan, Yen, Leonel

Why I hate rainy days

As i was listening to Ja Rule and Mary J's "Rainy Days", it reminds me of the flood that almost washed out our town. Well, unlike the song that depicts a good scene and optimism, what happened to our place was really depressing. Rain is said to be a symbol of abundance, but to us, it has brought disaster. What makes me worried is that, according to the news, this year will be the year of La Nina. So that means, more floods and deaths in our city. This is why i hate rainy days. After the traumatic Reming typhoon and the flood last February 21, what's next? I just hope this will not get worse. But i can't see any good result though the sun has shown up 'coz some parts of our region are still submerged to flood and still, the number of death is increasing. (sigh) God help us.

Another Tag from Mayan

THE 63 QUESTIONS

1. Song/s that always makes you sad? YESTERDAY by Leona Lewis, Circles by Marques Houston and What you Don't know by Monrose
2. Last thing you bought? My green poncho and scarf
3. Last person you argued with? None..mabait ako e..lolz
4. Do you put Butter before putting the jelly on? Duh! Don’t like the taste..
5. One of your stuffed animals' names as a kid? Hehe..it’s AKANAH
6. Did you ever own at one time a Nysnc Cd? Haha..neva’!
7. Favorite day of the week? sunday and Monday..off from work
8. Favorite Sundae topping?: chocolate
9. Did you take Piano lessons? Uhh..sort of
10. Most frequent song played? R&B hiphop songs
11. T.V. show you secretly enjoy? Erm..koreanovelas and teen shows hehe
12. Would you rather play basketball or hockey? I’d rather play hockey dude
13. Date someone older or younger? U-huh
14. One place you would wish to travel right now? Oui! Francia! and Mehico ( my motherland)
15. Do you use umbrellas? Ouch! No..(but it’s on my list now) hehe
16. Do you know all the words to the Canadian national anthem? Hehe..nope
17. Favorite Cheese? all
18. Disturbed or My Chemical Romance? My Chemical Romance
19. Do you prefer Blondes or Brunettes? brunettes
20. Best job you ever had? No comment..lolz
21. did you go to your high school prom? yeah
22. perfect time to wake up? 6:30
23. perfect time to go to bed? 8:00
24. do you use your queen right away in chess? Don’t know
25. Ever been in a car accident? Not yet hahahaha
26. closer to mom or dad...or neither? mom
27. what age is this exciting life over for you? teenage years and college years
28. what decade during the 20th century would you have chosen to be a teenager?: 90's
29. Favorite shoes you have EVER owned? Chuck Taylor
30. Do you have an article of clothing you have had since you were in high school? none
31. Were you in track and field?: nope
32. Were you ever in a school talent show? Yeah..so embarrassing..haha
33. Have you ever written in a library book? (grin)
34. Allergic to? Dust
35. Favorite fruit? epol
36. Have you watched sex and the city? Once..not a fan
37. Baseball hat or toque? Baseball hat
38. Do you shampoo first in the shower or soap? shampoo first
39. Wet the toothbrush or brush dry with the toothpaste?: Wet the toothbrush first
40. Pen or pencil?: what are those? Hihihihi..i only know computer keyboard
41. Have you ever gambled at a casino? no way!
42. Have you thrown up on a plane?: nope
43. Have you thrown up in a car? nope
44. Have you thrown up at work? nope
45. Do you scream on roller coasters? nope
46. Who was your first prom date? Uhh..ca’nt remember
47. Who was your first roommate? My two sis..hehe
48. What alcoholic beverage did you drink when you got drunk for the first time? Don’t drink “alcoholic” churva;p
49. What was your first job? Web copy writer
50. What was your first car? Nissan vanette
51. When did you go to your first funeral? My grandpa’s funeral
52. How old were you when you first travelled away from your hometown? I can't remember
53. Who was your first grade teacher? Ms Revelar haha..
54. Where did you go on your first airplane ride? manila
55. When you snuck out of your house for the first time, who was it with? Uhh..haven’t done that
56. Who was your first Best Friend and are you still friends with them? Lynn Abundo
57. Where did you live the first time you moved out of your parent's house? Umm..none
58. Who is the first person you call when you have a bad day? My best buds lala, yen and my mom.
59. Who's wedding were you in the first time you were a bridesmaid or a groomsmen? My aunt’s
60. What is the first thing you do in the morning? Check my cellphone
61. What was the first concert you attended?: none..
62. First tattoo or piercing? Ear piercing
63. First celebrity crush? Allen Mussy hehe..
People to tag lala, halley, ate precy, ruth, tala and leonel

GREATEST X by JANET JACKSON

New song of Janet J, from her new album "DISCIPLINE"..if you like it..download it here..by the way, a big thanx to abarm2007..got this song from him..:)



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New Mp3 finds

Boyfriend by Brick and Lace
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My Escape by Chris Fields ft. Timbaland and Brandy
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Worthy of by Justin Timberlake
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Yesterday by Leona Lewis
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Do right by Mario
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Outta' my head by Ashlee Simpson
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Rush Love by Dawn Richards
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What Have you Done for Me by Brandy
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IT'S TIME TO SHINE-LANILANE OCBINA hehe

hey people! check niyo to song demo ni lanilane..galing!

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NEW MP3's

Ching a Ling by Missy Elliot
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Hurt So Bad (remix) by Alicia Keys ft. J. Love
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Like You'll Never Seee Me Again (remix) Alicia Keys ft. Ludacris
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Apologize (female version) by Blu Cantrell
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Last Time By Trey Songz

Moving Mountains by Usher ft Timbaland

NEW RandB ALBUMS OF FEBRUARY 2008

"Discipline" by Ms Janet Jackson. This is actually her 10th album and features the song "Feedback" and will be release in stores this February.





To all the Step Up fans like me hehe..here's a new compilation of songs from the movie hit Step Up 2: The Streets, which includes the songs like Ching a ling by Missy E, Killa' by Cherish ft. Young Joc and more. The songs are really cool! They'll make you step up to the dance floor.



New AmErykah, Pt. One: 4th World War is Eryka Badu's 5th full release. Her new album features the song "Honey" and will be available in stores this February.






Back of My 'Lac (Deluxe edition) will be available everywhere this month. Its original version came out last October 2007. This new edition includes the songs like Bed, sooner you get to love, and when you get home. This is perfect for the Valentines Day and for those who are in love.




In and Out of Love by Cheri Dennis. A talent of Bad Boy Records whose debut album was released by iTunes last November. She's the one who gave us the songs like "showdown" and pretend.





MJ's back with the compilation of 25th Anniversary of Thriller. This album features seven bonus tracks and six of them were remixes that feature artists like Fergie, Akon, Will I Am and more.

I'm Back!

Enough crying..no more drama..i'll be fine now..so sure of that! Sorry i have been preoccupied with so many things lately haha.. Anyway, i'll be posting new songs from my mp3 files..so you guys just check it out!

ME ON PEOPLE

..ok so this is me on the cover..hehehe

FRESH R&B TRACKS

New Song of Will I Am ft. Fergie- "Pick it up"
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"Shame" by Young Steff..umm i dunno' about the artist but the song is good..hehe
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"Puakenikeni"???..i dunno' what that means..hehe..just ask Nicole Scherzinger ( a collab with Konvik musik)..it's her new single..
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To all the martyrs and broken hearted out there..you gotta' hear this.."Bleeding Love" by Leona Lewis..the XFactor champ..
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"My Love"..oh! this is not JT's song..it's a new track of Usher collaborating with Mario..i like this song..damn kewl! By the way a big thanx to DJ GFX..got this song from him..tnx dude!
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The 3 Versions of Wrong When You're Gone

Who has the best version?


MELISSA JIMENEZ' VERSION

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JENNIFER'S LOPEZ VERSION

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KERI HILSON'S VERSION

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AN OLD POEM

Here's a poem that i want to share with you guys; I've found this on my book "The Girls Guide to Hunting and Fishing" by Melissa Bank, which i haven't finished reading yet, this poem made me realize some things about life, it is quite similar with the Art of Letting go, here it goes;

ONE ART
by Elizabeth Bishop

The Art of losing isn't hard to master;
so many things seem filled with intent
to be lost that their lost is no disaster

Lose something everyday. Accept the fluster
of lost door keys, the hour badly spent.
The Art of losing isn't hard to master.

Then practice losing farther, losing faster:
places,and names,and where it was you meant
to travel. None of these will bring disaster.

I lost my mother's watch. And look! my last, or
next-to-last,of three loved houses went.
The art of losing isn't hard to master.

I lost two cities,lovely ones.And, vaster,
some realms I owned, two rivers, a continent.
I miss them, but it wasn't a disaster.

-Even losing you(the joking voice, a gesture
I love) I shan't have lied.It's evident
the art of losing's not to hard to master
though it may look like (write it) like disaster.

LSS

BELIEVE ME

by FORT MINOR

I guess
That this is where we've come to
If you don't want to
Then you don't have to
Believe me

But I
Won't be there when you go down
Just so you know now
You're on your own now
Believe me

Yo
I don't wanna be the one to blame you
Like fun and games
Keep playin' 'em
I'm just sayin-
Think back then
We was like one in the same
On the right track
But I was on the wrong train
It's like that
Now you gotta face the pain
And the devil's got a fresh new place to play
In your brain
Like a maze
You can never escape
The rain
Every damn day's the same shade of grey

Hey
I used to have a little bit of a plan
Use ta'
Have a concept of where I stand
But that concept slipped right outta my hand
And now
I don't really even know who I am
Yo
What do I have to say
Maybe I should do
What I have to do to break free
'N whatever happens to you
We'll see
But it's not gonna happen with me

I guess
That this is where we've come to
If you don't want to
Then you don't have to
Believe me

But I
Won't be there when you go down
Just so you know now
You're on your own now
Believe me

Back then
I thought you were just like me
Somebody who could see all the pain I see
But you
Proved to me unintentionally
That you would self destruct eventually
Now I'm thinkin' like the mistake I made doesn't hurt
But its not gonna work
'Cause it's really much worse
Than I thought
I wished you were something you were not
And now this guilt is really all that I got

You turn your back
And walk away in shame
All you got
Is a memory 'a pain
Nothin' makes sense
You jus' stare at the ground
I hear my voice in your head
When no one else is around
So what do I have to say
Maybe I should do
What I have to do
To break free
Man
'N whatever happens to you
We'll see
But it's not gonna happen with me

I guess
That this is where we've come to
If you don't want to
Then you don't have to
Believe me

But I
Won't be there when you go down
Just so you know now
You're on your own now
Believe me

Yeah!

I guess
That this is where we've come to
If you don't want to
Then you don't have to
Believe me

But I
Won't be there when you go down
Just so you know now
You're on your own now
Believe me

I will do what I have to do
You're on your own now
Believe me
Whatever happens to you
You're on your own now
Believe me
What do I have to say
You're on your own now
Believe me
Its not gonna happen to me
You're on your own now
Believe me

Yeah!

This is the song i want Vinz to hear..hehe

Farewell to my furry friend

..good-bye Shipu..Thanx for making us happy..i'm gonna' miss you

Another "Tagged"

Tagged Part 2 hehe..

1. Name 1 thing you do everyday: hmm..type..type..and type..lolz
2. Name 2 things you wish you could learn: learn to speak any foreign languages and compose songs like Timbaland do.
3. Name 3 things that remind you of your childhood:Football,padyak joy ride and step-not hehe..
4. Name 4 things you love to eat but rarely do: Street foods ..umm..'coz my tummy complains hehe..malunggay kasi matagal matunaw wahahaha..
5. Name 5 things that make you feel good: music, shipu-my cat,hanging out with my friends, spend more time with my family, anime movie marathon with my 2 sis, and eating..hehe

The 5 persons i want to Tagged : Lala, Tala, Leonel, Halley and Ate Pres

I was tagged by YHEN

FIVE random things:
5 Things Found in my Bag
1. rosaries
2. wallet
3. ballpen
4. cellphone
5. kikay kit
5 Things Found in my Wallet
1. money
2. ATM cards/ID's
3. pictures
4.receipts
5.
5 Things Found in my Room
1. bed
2. shipu
3. computer
4. books
5. kikay stuffs
5 Things I’ve Always Wanted To Do
1. enroll in taekwondo again/hiphop danz class
2. sleep and eating galore
3. study music & arts in Europe (ASA)
4. finish reading "The Expected One"
5. compose a new song
5 Things I am Currently Into
1. blogging
2. work...work....work...
3. reflecting..hehe
4. hmm..composing songs
5. song writing
5 People to Tag:
Lala, halley, Tala,Dhen,mayan

The Art of Letting Go

Dr. Alan Zimmerman's Comments:

Sooner or later, everyone you know will disappoint
you in some way. They'll?say something or fail to
say something that will hurt you. And they'll do
something or fail to do something that will anger
you. It's inevitable.

Unfortunately, you make things worse when you stew
over someone's words and deeds. When you dwell on a
rude remark or an insensitive action made by another
person, you're headed for deeper problems.

In fact, the more you dwell on these things, the more bitter you'll get.

You'll find your joy, peace and happiness slipping
away. And you'll find your productivity slowing down
as you spend more and more time thinking about the
slight or telling others about it. Eventually, if
you don't stop doing it, you'll even get sick.

So what should you do the next time someone betrays
you? TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR FEELINGS. Even
though the other person may be at fault, even though the other person
wronged you, you are still
responsible for your own feelings.

In other words, other people do not "cause" your
feelings. You choose them.

For example, two different people could be told that
their suggestions made at the staff meeting were
"stupid and idiotic." One person may "choose" to
feel so hurt that he never speaks up at any other
meeting again. The other person may "choose" to feel
sorry for the critic, sorry that the critic couldn't
see the wisdom and necessity of her suggestions.

As long as you blame other people for your feelings,
as long as you believe other people caused your
feelings, you're stuck. You're a helpless victim.

But if you recognize the fact that you choose your
feelings and you are responsible for your feelings,
there's hope.?You can take some time to think about
your feelings. And you can decide what is the best
thing to say or do.

Then, you've got to learn to WALK AWAY FROM
DISAPPOINTMENT.?It's difficult to do, but it's
possible. The famous 19th century Scottish
historian, Thomas Carlyle, proved that.

After working on his multi-volume set of books on
"The French Revolution" for six years, Carlyle
completed the manuscript and took volume one to his
friend John Stuart Mill. He asked Mill to read it.

Five days later, Mill's maid accidentally threw the
manuscript into the fire. In agony, Mill went to
Carlyle's house to tell him that his work had been
destroyed.

Carlyle did not flinch. With a smile, he said, "That's all right, Mill.

These things happen. It is a part of life. I will
start over. I can remember most of it, I am sure.
Don't worry. It's all here in my mind. Go,my friend!
Do not feel bad."

As Mill left, Carlyle watched him from the window.
Carlyle turned to his wife and said, "I did not want
him to see how crushed I am by this misfortune." And
with a heavy sigh, he added, "Well the manuscript is
gone, so I had better start writing again."

Carlyle finally completed the work, which ranks as
one of the great classics of all time. He had
learned to walk away from his disappointment.

After all, what could Carlyle have done about his
burnt manuscript?

Nothing. Nothing would have resurrected the
manuscript. All Carlyle could do was to get bitter
or get started. And what can you do about anything
once it is over? Not much. You can try to correct it
if it is possible, or you can walk away from it if
it isn't. Those are your only two choices.

Sometimes you've just got to shake it off and step
up. It's like the farmer who had an old mule who
fell into a deep dry well. As he assessed the
situation, he knew it would be difficult, if not
impossible, to lift the heavy mule out of the deep
well.

So the farmer decided to bury the mule in the well.

After all, the mule was old and the well was dry, so
he could solve two problems at once. He could put
the old mule out of his misery and have his well
filled.

The farmer asked his neighbors to help him with the
shoveling. To work they went. As they threw
shovel-full of dirt after shovel-full of dirt on the
mule's back, the mule became frightened.

Then all of a sudden an idea came to the mule. Each
time they would throw a shovel-full of dirt on his
back, he would shake it off and step up.

Shovel-full after shovel-full, the mule would shake
it off and step up. In not too long a time, the
exhausted and dirty mule stepped over the top of the
well and through the crowd.

That's the same approach we all need to take. We
need to shake it off and step up.

Finally, you need to FORGIVE. It's difficult,
especially when the other person doesn't deserve
your forgiveness or doesn't even seek it. It's
difficult when the other person is clearly in the
wrong.

Part of the difficulty comes from a common
misunderstanding of forgiveness.

Forgiveness doesn't mean that the other person's
behavior is okay. And forgiveness doesn't mean that
the other person is off the hook. He's still
responsible for his misbehavior.

Forgiveness is about letting yourself off the
emotional hook. It's about releasing your negative
emotions, attitudes, and behaviors. It's about
letting go of the past so you can go forward to the
future.

Everyone in your life, everyone on and off the job
is going to disappoint you. If you know how to
respond to those situations, you'll be way ahead of
most people. You'll be able to live above and beyond
your circumstances.

Action:

Identify two people that have disappointed, hurt, or
angered you. If?possible, select two people towards
whom you still have some bitterness.

Then ask yourself, "How does my bitterness serve me?

Am I happier holding on to it?

Do I sleep better?

Is my life richer, fuller, and better because of my bitterness?"

If you find that your bitterness is hurting you, make a decision.
Actually decide to let it go.

Walk away from the disappointment -- which means you
no longer dwell on it or talk about it. Period!

Or as Islam teaches us, the true believer is the one who
can forgive while she is angry.

..this is for my friend Lala..:p

Why Women Cry

Why Women Cry...

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"
"Because I'm a woman," she told him.
"I don't understand," he said.
His Mom just hugged him and said,
"And you never will."
Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does
mother seem to cry for no reason?"
"All women cry for no reason," was all his
dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a man, still
wondering why women cry.
Finally he put prayed to God who would surely know the answer.
When God responded he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"
God said: "When I made the woman she had to be to be made special. I made
her shoulders
strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet
gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure
childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I
gave her
a hardness that allows
her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and
take care of her family
through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
gave her the sensitivity
to love her children under any and all
circumstances, even when her child
has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to
carry her husband through
his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect
his heart.
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his
wife, but sometimes tests
her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
And lastly, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers and only hers
exclusively to use whenever she needs it.
She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers."
"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman
is not in the clothes she
wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she
combs her hair.The
beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because
that is the doorway to
her heart - the place where love resides."

Letting Go of Vinz..

LETTING GO TAKES LOVE

To let go does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off,
it's the realization I can't control another.
To let go is not to enable,
but allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means
the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another,
it's to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to care for,
but to care about.
To let go is not to fix,
but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To let go is not to be protective,
it's to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny,
but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.

To let go is to fear less and love more
Remember: The time to love is short


------ author unknown

...tnx for the memories..good bye vinz

Goodbye To You - Michelle Branch

My Mike..

i FelL !n luv w!Th d!s p!cTuRe..

I created another blog and this is where i'm gonna' put all my thoughts and other stuffs that i like. hmm..ok like this picture out here..it's Mike Shinoda, he's hot! right? hehe..he's one of the best rappers for me. His songs inspires me to write my own masterpiece as well. So yeah, just like what he said.."10% luck, 20% skill, 15% concentrated power of will, 5% pleasure, 50% pain, and a 100% reason to remember the name..(sigh)..wish i could..lolz